the meaning of love is....???? cont'd

ok, so to clear things up a tad. im not trying to say that love ONLY exists in they ways i might have stated, but im just stating that from what ive witness, the negative attributes that i stated were some reasons why people believe love NOT to seem real. im not making this up in my mind. i have had help from friends who have told me specifically that those reasons i pointed out were not love in THEIR situations(maybe i should have stated that from the beginning). im not saying that anyones love is false im just writing my opinion and the opinions of others on were we believe it does not seem real. if i made it sound anything from it truly means im sorry. i dont want people to get the wrong understanding of it....that will make me sad=[